I have this tree analogy when I think of people in my life, be it
friends, family, acquaintances, employees, co-workers, whomever...They
are all placed inside what I call my tree test. It goes like this:
LEAF PEOPLE:
Some people come into your life and they are like leaves on a tree. They
are only there for a season. You can't depend on them or count on them
because they are weak and only there to give you shade. Like leaves,
they are there to take what they need and as soon as it gets cold or a
wind blows in your life they are gone. You can't be angry at them, it's
just who they are.
BRANCH PEOPLE:
There are some people who come into your life and they are like branches
on a tree. They are stronger than leaves, but you have to be careful
with them. They will stick around through most seasons, but if you go
through a storm or two in your life it's possible that you could lose
them. Most times they break away when it's tough. Although they are
stronger than leaves, you have to test them out before you run out there
and put all your weight on them. In most cases they can't handle too
much weight. But again, you can't be mad with them, it's just who they
are.
ROOT PEOPLE:
If you can find some people in your life who are like the roots of a
tree then you have found something special. Like the roots of a tree,
they are hard to find because they are not trying to be seen. Their only
job is to hold you up and help you live a strong and healthy life. If
you thrive, they are happy. They stay low key and don't let the world
know that they are there. And if you go through an awful storm they will
hold you up. Their job is to hold you up, come what may, and to nourish
you, feed you and water you.
Just as a tree has many limbs and many leaves, there are few roots.
Look at your own life. How many leaves, branches and roots do you have?
What are you in other people's lives?
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